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	<title>Comments on: KATHY - heavy &amp; light, harder &amp; better, complicated &amp; simple</title>
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		<title>By: kathyescobar</title>
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		<dc:creator>kathyescobar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Sep 2010 15:17:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>randi - thanks for reading from afar, it is so fun to be able to stay connected this way...that's one thing i really love about the church calendar, a bunch of people focused on the same passages in all different ways.  love to you from afar.

robbie - oh that was so pretty.  thank you for sharing...looking forward to seeing more of you &amp; hearing more of your voice at the refuge!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>randi - thanks for reading from afar, it is so fun to be able to stay connected this way&#8230;that&#8217;s one thing i really love about the church calendar, a bunch of people focused on the same passages in all different ways.  love to you from afar.</p>
<p>robbie - oh that was so pretty.  thank you for sharing&#8230;looking forward to seeing more of you &amp; hearing more of your voice at the refuge!</p>
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		<title>By: Robbie Begalle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robbie Begalle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 17:20:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Kathy! As I read your blog, one of my favorite poems, by one of my favorite authors, came to mind. Here it is. I hope you like it!



The Dance by Oriah Mountain Dreamer

I have sent you an invitation,
The note inscribed on the palm of my hand by the fire of living.
Don’t jump up and shout, “Yes, this is what I want, let’s do it!”
Just stand up quietly and dance with me.

Show me how you follow your deepest desires,
Spiraling down into the ache within the ache,
And I will show you how I reach inward and open outward
To feel the kiss of the Mystery, sweet lips on my own, every day.

Don’t tell me you want to hold the whole world in your heart.
Show me how you turn away from making another wrong without Abandoning yourself when you are hurt and afraid of being unloved.

Tell me a story of who you are.
And see who I am in the stories I am living.
And together we will remember that each of us always has a choice.

Don’t tell me how wonderful things will be…someday.
Show me you can risk being completely at peace,
Truly okay with the way things are right now in this moment,
And again in the next, and the next, and the next….

I have heard enough warrior stories of heroic daring.
Tell me how you crumble when you hit the wall,
The place you cannot go beyond the strength of your own will.

What carries you to the other side of that wall,
To the fragile beauty of your own humanness?
And after we have shown each other how we have set and kept the Clear, healthy boundaries that help us live side by side with each other, 
Let us risk remembering that we never stopped silently loving 
Those we once loved out loud.

Take me to the places on the earth that teach you how to dance,
The places where you can risk letting the world break your heart,
And I will take you to the places where the earth beneath my feet 
And the stars over my head make my heart whole again.

Show me how you take care of business
Without letting business determine who you are. 
When the children are fed but still the voices within and around us 
Shout that the soul’s desires have too high a price,
Let us remind each other that it is never about the money.

Show me how you offer to your people and the world
The stories and songs you want your children’s children to remember,
And I will show you how I struggle,
Not to change the world, but to love it.

Sit beside me in the long moments of shared solitude,
Knowing both our absolute aloneness and our undeniable belonging.
Dance with me in the silence and in the sound of small daily words,
Holding neither against me at the end of the day.

And when the sound of all the declarations of our sincerest
Intentions has died away on the wind,
Dance with me in the infinite pause before the next great inhale 
Of the breath that is breathing us all into being,
Not filling the emptiness from the outside or from within.

Don’t say, “Yes!”
Just take my hand and dance with me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Kathy! As I read your blog, one of my favorite poems, by one of my favorite authors, came to mind. Here it is. I hope you like it!</p>
<p>The Dance by Oriah Mountain Dreamer</p>
<p>I have sent you an invitation,<br />
The note inscribed on the palm of my hand by the fire of living.<br />
Don’t jump up and shout, “Yes, this is what I want, let’s do it!”<br />
Just stand up quietly and dance with me.</p>
<p>Show me how you follow your deepest desires,<br />
Spiraling down into the ache within the ache,<br />
And I will show you how I reach inward and open outward<br />
To feel the kiss of the Mystery, sweet lips on my own, every day.</p>
<p>Don’t tell me you want to hold the whole world in your heart.<br />
Show me how you turn away from making another wrong without Abandoning yourself when you are hurt and afraid of being unloved.</p>
<p>Tell me a story of who you are.<br />
And see who I am in the stories I am living.<br />
And together we will remember that each of us always has a choice.</p>
<p>Don’t tell me how wonderful things will be…someday.<br />
Show me you can risk being completely at peace,<br />
Truly okay with the way things are right now in this moment,<br />
And again in the next, and the next, and the next….</p>
<p>I have heard enough warrior stories of heroic daring.<br />
Tell me how you crumble when you hit the wall,<br />
The place you cannot go beyond the strength of your own will.</p>
<p>What carries you to the other side of that wall,<br />
To the fragile beauty of your own humanness?<br />
And after we have shown each other how we have set and kept the Clear, healthy boundaries that help us live side by side with each other,<br />
Let us risk remembering that we never stopped silently loving<br />
Those we once loved out loud.</p>
<p>Take me to the places on the earth that teach you how to dance,<br />
The places where you can risk letting the world break your heart,<br />
And I will take you to the places where the earth beneath my feet<br />
And the stars over my head make my heart whole again.</p>
<p>Show me how you take care of business<br />
Without letting business determine who you are.<br />
When the children are fed but still the voices within and around us<br />
Shout that the soul’s desires have too high a price,<br />
Let us remind each other that it is never about the money.</p>
<p>Show me how you offer to your people and the world<br />
The stories and songs you want your children’s children to remember,<br />
And I will show you how I struggle,<br />
Not to change the world, but to love it.</p>
<p>Sit beside me in the long moments of shared solitude,<br />
Knowing both our absolute aloneness and our undeniable belonging.<br />
Dance with me in the silence and in the sound of small daily words,<br />
Holding neither against me at the end of the day.</p>
<p>And when the sound of all the declarations of our sincerest<br />
Intentions has died away on the wind,<br />
Dance with me in the infinite pause before the next great inhale<br />
Of the breath that is breathing us all into being,<br />
Not filling the emptiness from the outside or from within.</p>
<p>Don’t say, “Yes!”<br />
Just take my hand and dance with me.</p>
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		<title>By: randi :)</title>
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		<dc:creator>randi :)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 10:31:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wonderful!  

we are also going through the calendar and read this scripture Sunday night together.  so glad I could read your take on it too - I hear yoU! :) 

thank u!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wonderful!  </p>
<p>we are also going through the calendar and read this scripture Sunday night together.  so glad I could read your take on it too - I hear yoU! <img src='http://blog.therefugeonline.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>thank u!!</p>
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